Today I think of something very specific. While I remember my father on this day another story comes to mind.
If you read the post below about my mom, you know she was born and raised in Germany. After the war things were bad, really bad. The was nothing to eat, Not all of our allies acted with kindness. She and her siblings were often hungry and cold. Russian soldiers (not all of them okay.) came through their town and pilfered from their homes. My mother's sister was 16 years old when a group of Russian soldiers caught her walking home, they pulled her into a ditch and gang raped her. They left her in that ditch like she was nothing.
My mother was caned for stealing asparagus from a farmer's field. A little girl, hungry. Someone saw her and told the teacher at school. She was caned in front of the whole class. Kids today have no freakin clue.
There was an American soldier. A black man. My mother had never seen a black man in her little German town. When the Americans came through (before the Russians) they often saw soldiers around town. Mom told me this man in particular will always be in her memory. He would toss candy and his rations to the German kids. They would get so excited to see him. He offered them a tired smile and a little treat. This man gave away his rations, all he had and shared it with his "enemy". Makes you wonder about that term doesn't it?
Mom says now, years later, that she wished she knew his name. I am sure he is long gone from this world. I would have looked him up if I could. Here was a man that came from bad times himself. He was a second class citizen in his own country. His family was most likely poor and had nothing. He shared his food with a hungry little girl. I pray in the afterlife his cup runneth over.
Thank you to our veterans today and thank you to that soldier who only saw a little girl, not an enemy.
9 comments:
Breaks my heart to know you are right - the soldier who acted in a noble and honorable way was probably not treated with honor and respect in his own country. His memory is being honored by your mom and you now. A salute to the kind soldier with the tired smile!! May we not forget the other soldiers who stand tall.
No doubt the kind soldier saw something special in your mom's eyes. Something that a battle weary soldier would recognize immediately - courage.
That sounds like a really REALLY tough time for your mother & sister, I can't imagine! What a lovely soul that soldier was though, not many then or now for that matter would do that.
Christina -
What a beautiful post, again! Your family has quite a story and you are honoring them greatly by retelling it thereby creating an opportunity for education. Thank you.
Mindy
www.thesuburbanlife.com
The atrocities of war are not limited to the front lines, it's true. Sadly women and children suffer greatly just trying to survive the insanity. I'm so sorry to hear that the violence affected your family so personally.
Angels come in all shapes, sizes, and colours. No doubt, that soldier felt more connected to his own humanity in the moments when he was able to ease the suffering of another. The act of giving does not leave the Giver untouched.
Blessings,
Carolynn
Beautiful story Christina, I am so moved. I love your last sentence "thank you to that soldier who only saw a little girl, not an enemy". Such sadness for your Mom and her sister. Your Mom is what courage is all about.
Very thought provoking and touching post Christina... thanks for sharing with us.
So so sorry for all of the heartache. What a beautiful soldier.
Touching story
That brought tears to my eyes. It is amazing that soldier, who was surely treated terribly in his own country, was still somehow full of love inside. He is a true hero.
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